Monday,
January 29, 2007
This next encounter just proves how small the world really is
these days. We headed down to breakfast this morning but soon
discovered we forgot Becca's bib (yesterday without the bib was
painfully messy.) So, after getting seated at a table and
getting Becca her congee, I headed back to the room to look for
the bib. On the elevator trip back down, I said hello to an
adoptive family. They had a strong southern accent, so I asked
what state they're from, and the father said Georgia. Hmm, my
interest perked up a bit and so I pushed it a little further and
asked where in Georgia. The man told me that they live in
Augusta - okay, so I don't really know anybody in Augusta; now I
don't really care anymore. But then he went on to say, "But I
grew up in middle Georgia." Ah, I was interested again. "Where
in Georgia?" I asked. "Milledgeville," he said. Not believing
him, I said, "Milledgeville, Georgia?" and he said, "Yes." Wow!
But it gets better. I went back to the table and told Angie,
"Hey remember these names, Grady and Frances Torrance, so I can
report their names in Becca's journal. They're some grandparents
of an adoptive family I just met and they live in Milledgeville,
Georgia." I quickly learned that Grady was Angie's economics
professor. We met and took a photo with the family and Frances
told us that she had been Pop Strickland's Deacon.
After a rushed breakfast, because Becca decided to catch up on
sleep this morning, we walked with our group to the Health Care
Center of Guandong International Travel for the children's
medical examinations. On the way there, a young man asked Angie
if he could talk with her to practice his English. He asked her
where she was from and what were her hobbies. He told her that
he had taught himself English using American movies and music.
His name was James, after LeBron James, the professional
basketball player.
The girls all did quite well during the medical exams. There was
a special area for adoptive children. The examinations reminded
me of my high school group physical. The children were whisked
through 3 permanent stations. These stations consisted of "ENT",
"Medical and Surgical", and "Height, Weight, Temperature." Becca
really did well - she cried during the medical and weight
portions but not her ear, nose and throat examination. The
actual examination took less than 3 minutes. I didn't have a
chance to talk with the physicians as a colleague because they
were very busy. I also didn't get the details on Becca's
examination (with the exception that she weighs 17 lbs) as I was
documenting the event with my camera - the one physician even
voluntarily re-measured Becca's head circumference so that I
could get the photo. Becca is the youngest and smallest of our
group of girls.
After a short break, we all headed over to some marketplace by
taxi to search for pearl and jade bargains. Angie was totally
overwhelmed as this marketplace was beyond huge - it was like we
were in Las Vegas all over again (Angie was so overwhelmed in
Vegas she wouldn't come out of the room for a few days). I
thought the Mall of America was big, but this place seemed to
trump it. We have heard so much about the Pearl and Jade
Markets. For some reason, I had it in my head that we would go
to this nice, aesthetically pleasing market with fountains, fish
in the ponds and music softly playing in the background by
musicians dressed in the ancient garb. Oh no, this was a New
York City style market! Hundreds upon hundreds, even thousands
of little shops selling every piece of jewelry imaginable. The
place was 6 stories high, with 2 large atriums, a connecting
corridor, and stores layered behind each other. You could easily
get lost in the maze. I personally had a lot of fun, but Angie
hated it.
But, we were on a quest for our child's gift for when she is
older and we succeeded in obtaining it. Our guide sent us to the
best, highest quality pearl store and we purchased a pearl
necklace, matching earrings and 2 matching bracelets (and didn't
break the bank.) We hope to give them to her on her wedding day
or when she enters the convent - these are her choices (I'll
tell her when she's about 16 - just kidding.) |

Becca wasn't thrilled with getting weighed.

Hmm...looks like the stocks have been falling.

Trying to brush Mommy's hair.

Outside at the marketplace.

Stella with Becca during our shopping expedition.

Becca and Malia discussing toys and clothes.
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Now, you may have
seen a lot of pictures of other adoptive families at McDonald's.
It seems everyone takes a picture of the baby's first French fry
from McDonald's. Angie feels that this is not something to be
proud of, and has been saying that this is something we will not
post. But when we saw and recognized those golden arches at that
huge marketplace, we were magnetized and next thing you know,
there we were eating a Big Mac and taking photographs of Becca
and her French fries.
Becca has once again been a joy. Today, I received my first
unsolicited kiss and I really think she said "Daddy." She
probably said "dadadadadadada" as this is easy for babies but,
hey, no one else was in the room so it will be documented as
"Daddy, I love you so much. Thanks for everything. I love Mommy
just as much!" If you think I'm kidding about how smart this kid
is, just look at the photograph (remembering that a picture says
a thousand words). And that paper isn't even in Chinese, her
native language. She also pulled herself up from a sitting
position and then proceeded to walk on her own with support from
the bed. She taught us how to follow her commands as well. When
she's tired, if we are holding her and sit or lie/lay (again,
look that one up) down, she will scream or cry until we stand
and then she laughs or giggles. Sit back down and tears start
flowing again. The faucet turns off when we stand up. And, this
is all while we are holding her. Becca drank from a sippy cup
today for the first time and ate some more solid food.
We've learned the Chinese word for no which sounds like boo
although Becca laughs when Angie says it - perhaps it's
something in the pronunciation that Angie is missing.
This evening after going to eat dinner at Lucy's Bar and Cafe
with another family in our group, we went shopping. The
saleswoman sang a Chinese song to Becca so Becca let the lady
hold her. After shopping, we went to our friends' room and their
child, Malia, and Becca played together for about 30 minutes.
Well, it's getting late so I will see you tomorrow. We have our
farewell dinner and red couch photos tomorrow. |